Story 24: Having Colombian Women Cook For You on Dates

Some odd years ago, I was a single man enjoying the bachelor life in Colombia

In this country, there is a lot to enjoy as the women here are sexy and feminine

So one night I was swiping on Tinder in Bogota and a woman named Yareli matched with me on there

She was a very cute and petite Mexican woman that was living in Colombia

What was she doing here in Bogota?

Well, actually she was a college student that was 23 years old if I remember right and her dad was Colombian

So even though she had Mexican citizenship, she also had Colombian citizenship as well due to family

And despite having lived in Mexico, she ultimately moved back to Colombia with her parents for whatever reason

So anyway we matched and she was a very cute girl in her photos – a light brown petite woman with long, black hair and cute eyes

Anyway, we got talking and it was clear to me that she was down to fuck pretty easily

So she showed up to my place directly by taxi

Which she paid for, which is not as common in Colombia as quite a few women here prefer that the man pays for the taxi

Anyway, she shows up with a bag because I agreed that she could spend the night with me

And keep in mind that I hadn’t even met her in person yet – so it was clear that she was down to have a good time if she was cool with spending the night

Which, by the way, is not entirely uncommon – most women won’t agree to spend the night right away without having met you first

But there’s a sufficient amount of women that will agree to that beforehand and even more that will agree to it after spending some time with you at a club or a bar

So anyway, she arrives to the same street as where I was living but the taxi driver couldn’t find the apartment very easily – just the street

So I walk out of my apartment and have to walk about 5 minutes down one side of the street to eventually find her by herself with her phone out

We go for the usual kiss on the cheek that a lot of Latinas are comfortable with doing as a greeting

Then head back to my place

Now we are only back in my place for maybe 5 minutes before we start kissing more seriously (no cheek stuff!)

And one thing led to another before we ultimately just have sex right there in my apartment

She was probably in my place for maybe a total of 15 minutes at most before sex happened

And maybe a total of 25 minutes at most of having met her in person before it happened

Now that stuff does happen down here!

Especially if you are in a big, urban and liberal city like Bogota – it’s not completely uncommon

Though most women will prefer to get to know you a little bit longer than 25 minutes to be fair

More like 1 to 3 hours before sex happens normally

And of course, there are some that prefer to wait until a second date as most of you know

Well, after we had sex, we both were hungry obviously – having sex is a good way to burn those calories and develop an appetite

So we go to the kitchen

And she was more than happy to cook something

I had some chicken in the fridge with rice and some grapes

While she is cooking the chicken and preparing the rice, I am washing the grapes to get rid of any bacteria

And also making us some tea for the meal

Now I’m not going to lie here – it was a little bit hard to wash the grapes and make the tea when she had this cute body from behind

A nice little butt and a very cute, petite body

So you could say there was some sexual energy between us as we were making the meal

Now if you’re Gordon Ramsey or some other professional chef — maybe getting sexual while preparing a meal is some rule breaker for working in a restaurant

But it was a good meal overall – despite how distracted we were

But you want to know something parceros?

This isn’t too uncommon – having a woman cook for you on a date

It’s often something I recommend because it is a good reason for her to enter your apartment

Where you two can have more privacy and maybe have sex

Even though I never agree to take a woman to a restaurant before we have sex, I am a little more lenient on cooking a meal at my place

But here’s some main lessons you should take from this story to help you have more dating success down here (and maybe a nice meal!)

Main Lessons

First, as mentioned in this article here, I normally take chicks to a bar, a café or a park only before we have sex

No restaurants

But having her cook a meal for you is more acceptable in my opinion and is something I would do often

Why?

First, if she is cooking, then I consider it more fair. She is putting in the hard work to cook something nice

And it’s not just me buying her something for free with no effort on her end

Second, as said before, it’s a great reason for her to show up to your place where you two can escalate in private

Where you two try to escalate before any cooking and get to the point of having sex

And if sex happens, great – time for a meal next

If not, she is going to know you mostly just want sex and will head back home if she is not down to have sex

Which is cool – there will always be someone else to come around to maybe have some fun and you probably didn’t waste any food on her anyway

Third, you can frame the cooking as something you do together. So she cooks a certain portion of the meal (chicken in this case) and you another portion of it.

Which, in the end, will be impressive to her that you know how to cook something

Women like it when men show at least some effort in preparing something out of a meal

Fourth, it’s more interactive than some of the other date ideas you have in mind since you two are working together to make something nice

Fifth, it’s nice overall when a woman cooks something for you in general. A pretty woman that is cooking something for you is something to enjoy anywhere. She embraces her femininity overall and can be a pleasurable moment for you – especially if you two just had sex

After all, you can check out her body that you had just seen naked while she is showing you appreciation and cooking you something

And doesn’t that sound like a nice time for a date?

Much better anyway then just taking her to a restaurant without having had sex yet and spending money on her with no strong idea of if you two are going to have sex or not

Now which of the two sound better to you?

Finally, it should be mentioned that not all Colombian women will cook something for you obviously

Though, in my experience, most Colombian women are down for it if they like you and are more likely to know how to cook

Where in comparison to chicks from countries like the US, it’s much more common to find a chick who doesn’t even know how to cook

Not to mention that gender relations in the US are much more hostile and women there are more likely to find offense somehow to you suggesting that they cook something on a date

In part because so many have been brainwashed into thinking that being feminine and embracing their femininity is somehow bad or repressive

Of course, not all American women are like that but that’s a more common theme you will find up there

Whereas that is almost nonexistent in Colombia – a rare few will have that sentiment down here but it’s not something you should worry about

And it should be mentioned that it’s slightly less common for a woman to want to cook something for you in Bogota than it is in other parts of Colombia

Though it is pretty common enough in Bogota also – so again it’s not something to worry about

Anyway, hope you enjoyed this article and the advice it gives!

If you are going on a date with a sexy Colombian woman, keep this idea in mind to get laid and to also enjoy a nice meal with someone who embraces their femininity

Now if you have any insight or questions of your own, let me know in the comment section or send me an email

And if you want to read another story with some lessons, check out Story 25 here.

Thank you for your time

Hasta luego parceros,

Seth

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