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Occasionally, you will run across chicks in Colombia that don’t show up to a date or show up late. How would be some good dating advice for flakey Colombian women when this happen?
Well, here’s a story to illustrate how….
It was Saturday morning at around 11 AM and I had set up a date with a Colombian chick named Dahiana
For whatever reason, I tend to come across quite a few chicks here in Colombia named Dahiana. And so far I have had good luck with them so I was looking forward to our date
It was going to be my second date in the day and I was sitting in my apartment in Pereira about four years ago when this happened
With Dahiana, I told her that we were going to have a date today but I didn’t tell her the exact hour or where we were going to meet. Simply that we will figure out the details when the day comes
So here we are and it’s just a little over 1 AM when I get a message on Whatsapp
I turn on my phone and there she is – she wrote me a message!
“hola, como estas?” (hello, how are you?)
So I responded back that I am good and basically we turned the conversation over into when she was going to see me today
That she was going to write me sooner but she was with her family to celebrate an aunt’s birthday
But now she was ready and was wondering if we still had a date set up for that day
Which, given that she wrote to me, we did
And from then on, I knew this chick was genuinely interested in me
She wasn’t the type of girl to flake on a guy or anything like that – she was into me and wanted to actually see me
Now how do I know that?
Because she actually remembered that we were supposed to have a date today specifically
Which, to most people, doesn’t seem like that big of a deal – of course she would remember?
Wouldn’t she?
Well, in Colombia, not really
The thing is, it is well known that a lot of chicks in Colombia flake and those that do or those that are not interested in you will easily forget that you two had the date for that day
It’s so bad that if you ever plan for a date with a girl for a specific time, you shouldn’t start getting dressed and ready for your date until about when the date was supposed to start
Because there is a strong chance that she will show up late and some won’t even show up at all
Which, if you didn’t know that and if this was your first time dating in Colombia…
Then very likely you would have gotten ready “on time” and ended up having to wait for her to respond to your messages
Now, what I did in this story is basically a way to help you determine if she is serious or not
It’s also not just a way to tell if she is genuinely interested in you or if she will flake but it is also a good way to test if she is a low quality girl or not
Because a low quality one in Colombia will simply not even tell you that she isn’t showing up to the date – you had the date planned and she acts as if the date was never planned at all
These type of chicks are just messing with you
So, in some cases, you might want to do what I did in this story, which is simple
You set up a date with a girl for a specific day but you don’t give her the hour or the location of where you two will meet up until the day of the date.
If she texts you on the day of the date or the night before that she is excited to meet you and wants to follow up on the details of the date, then she is good. If she doesn’t do that and simply doesn’t even contact you for follow up, then she either has no interest in you romantically or sexually, is a low quality girl and would have flaked on you most likely.
So then let’s say that you do set up a time for the date
With Dahiana, I told her that we can meet up near my place
Of course, like most Colombian women, she doesn’t like the idea of taking public transportation across the city and is sorta indirectly suggesting if perhaps I can cover her taxi to my place or we meet near her
Well, given that she was the type of girl to not forget our date, I was fine with covering her taxi cost. It was only a few bucks anyway
So I had her come on over in a taxi and she said she will stop by around 2 PM after she has had lunch and spent more time with her family
So you would then assume that we are going to meet at exactly 2 PM no?
Wrong
In Colombia, the women will show up late even if they are high quality
In large part because everyone does that here so it’s completely normal to show up late to anything
Even if she was having a date with the Pope himself, she would show up a little bit late with the excuse that “traffic was bad” or “she had to do her makeup well”
Whatever the excuse is – it’ll be there
And given that I assume that most Colombian women will show up about 15 minutes late, I usually don’t even start getting ready for the date until around a few minutes before the date begins
Some will show up though maybe 5 to 10 minutes late but 15 is about average from what I have seen. Some are even late by 30 minutes to an hour.
An hour being if she was on a date with another guy before you by the way – such as perhaps her boyfriend
Which, as a side point, remember that infidelity is a problem in some parts of Colombia
But, moving on – I started getting ready at around 1:55 and she showed up to my place by 2:10
Which gave me enough time to quickly clean up my bedroom and get my clothes on and hair combed
I stepped out the door and there she was – a white Colombian girl with a cute smile in blue jeans and a pink shirt and brown hair to her shoulders
I paid for the taxi driver – which was only 3 bucks in this case – and we went off and had our date
And we had multiple dates after that – because as I said before, a Colombian woman who remembers your date is a woman who is interested in you and is more likely to be high quality
So in short, just remember the following points from this story and use them as dating advice for flakey Colombian women.
Main Points
- Many show up late – assume 15 minutes on average to be the norm. Anything less is a bonus and makes her look good in my eyes. Anything more until 30 minutes is a general minus against her. And if she is late by 45 minutes to an hour, then you are definitely not her only guy.
- Paying for her taxi is normal in Colombia. I try to not always do it as some will try to take money from you as written in another article. However, I am fine with it most of the time as it is only a few bucks and I know how to not get scammed.
- Use my advice in this article as a test against her character to see if she is a high quality or a low quality woman. This test alone will not indicate if she is high quality but will indicate that she is low quality if she fails it for no good reason – which is not even bothering to follow up with you if the date is still going to happen or not on the day or the night before of the date.
Hope that helps dating advice for flakey Colombian women helps!
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If you have any questions or your own dating advice for flakey Colombian women, let me know in the comment section below. Thanks and take care
Hasta luego parceros,
Seth
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