Over the years of living in Colombia, I have seen plenty of content online suggest that Colombian women are easier than American and Canadian women
Or even European women also
Now I don’t have much experience with European women to be fair so I can’t compare Colombian women to some of the chicks across the pond
However, I can compare them a bit easier to American and Canadian women in general given my experiences with all three nationalities
So before you ever get on an airplane to Colombia thinking that you are going to be a Gringo God that will conquer all the women here in Colombia….
Let’s break down some key factors about this topic so you don’t come here with any unrealistic expectations about the women in Colombia
And given the similarities between American and Canadian women, this article will do a more general comparison between Colombian women and women from both the US and Canada.
You won’t believe the amount of times that I have seen a foreigner go to Medellin and think that just because he tells women that his name is “John Cummingworth” or whatever…
That the women will instantly drop their panties, get on their knees and just beg for sex right there and then
The truth is that there has been a lot of hype online about how easy or sexy Colombian women are
And while there are plenty of sexy women here, no woman on the planet is going to be that easy
Even in countries like the Dominican Republic where casual sex is quite abundant for anybody with a pulse, you still have to be desirable
Don’t think that any 20 year old chick in Colombia is honestly going to find you as a 60 or 70 year old man to be attractive
Don’t think that being a foreigner is going to help you overcome the fact that perhaps you are overweight, have limited social skills or speak no Spanish
In the end, as always mentioned on this website, you have to be a desirable man to attract desirable women
This website isn’t about sugar coating Colombian women and selling you a false promise that you can get endless amounts of pussy just for having a foreign passport
Now does being a foreigner help with getting laid in Colombia?
As mentioned in another article I wrote – yes it does!
But it’s like saying that being a British dude will give you a slight improvement in your odds of having sex in the US
Simply because you are a little bit more interesting for being a foreigner and coming from a different country with a unique story to tell
On top of that, being a foreigner from a country like the US will make it more likely that women here will assume you have a more stable job and are more educated
So all around it can improve your chances but you still need to focus on self-improvement to make the rest of you more desirable
And more likely then to have success with Colombian women
In the US and Canada, women are generally speaking more open about expressing sexual interest in a dude overall
They don’t hide it as much and even at times don’t care as much if others know about it
Especially if you are talking about women from very urban places like LA, Miami, NYC, etc
Now in Colombia, women do have sex just as easily as American or Canadian women
There’s no question about it – their Catholic faith will not stop them from having sex
But they are not going to be as open about with you – they are going to have you do more of the heavy lifting to get you two to the point of having sex
And they definitely are shyer overall in public about wanting to have sex with you or escalating physically with you like making out for example
So while Colombian women overall have sex just as easily as American or Canadian women, they are not going to be as open about their sexual desires
This isn’t Peru or Bolivia where women are much more conservative and where religion might actually be a reason for why you two are not going to have sex
In Colombia, there are plenty of women that have casual sex plenty of times each week and drink a lot while going to Church on the seventh day to put on a show about being a religious good girl
In the end, most of the time, her Catholic faith isn’t going to be a limiting factor in if she decides to hook up with you or not
Online game is overall quite a tricky factor when deciding if North American women are easier than Colombian women
First, you have Tinder. In the US or Canada, Tinder is much worse than how it works in Colombia. With Tinder in North America, you simply have a lot more scammers trying to steal your money
Also, you have more attention seeking women that are not interested in sex and are only going to use you for getting attention on social media. Now these women exist in Colombia too but to a lesser degree and they concentrate in cities like Cartagena, Medellin or Bogota
And overall, women tend to be more receptive to foreigners on Tinder in Colombia when compared to the reception you probably get with Tinder in the US or Canada
On the flip side, Tinder is less commonly used outside the bigger cities so it is not always an effective tool to meeting women in Colombia depending on where you are.
But overall, Tinder works better in Colombia
Second, you have the fact that there are more online tools to meet women in the US or Canada than in Colombia. You have a lot more dating websites online for example and also you even have apps that aren’t meant to be dating apps that can be used to find women. For example, back years ago when I was in the US, I opened up an app called Yik Yak in Detroit.
Now Yik Yak doesn’t exist anymore but back whenever I used it in Detroit, there were occasionally real women looking to hook up through that app.
And that’s just one example of how online game is much more developed in the US than in Colombia.
Additionally, you have Instagram. Now you can use Instagram game in Colombia to get chicks easily but you will have a lot more success with it in US or Canada.
Though there are not nearly as many men in Colombia using Instagram to meet women when compared to North American men…
There are more American women than Colombian women on there.
So similar to Tinder, you have more women to work with overall even outside the large cities in US or Canada.
Outside the larger cities in Colombia, it will be a little bit harder to find women to hook up with using Instagram.
Finally, you do have a few online websites like Colombian Cupid or Latin American Cupid that work in your favor to meeting Colombian women.
So considering all of these points made, it’s tough to say which country is better for meeting women online and hooking up
Which would make it easier to decide which country has “easier women”
In short, I’d say online game is more “neutral” in that both areas (North America and Colombia) have their advantages and disadvantages.
Perhaps North America would have a slight advantage here but not by much in my opinion.
When going to a bar or nightclub in North America, it’s much more common to see mingling among people in any crowd.
In Colombia, that is a lot less common as people show up in groups and sit down at tables.
While in Colombia, if a random woman approaches you while at a bar, it is quite likely she is a prostitute looking for a possible client.
However, in North America, that doesn’t mean she is likely to be a prostitute and can happen actually in my experience.
And one of the reasons for this is that Colombian women have a bigger preference for being “chased” in a way
Whereas North American women, especially if they have consumed a lot of alcohol, are much more aggressive and “manly…”
In that they are less likely to be hesitant to go find a dude that they are down for hooking up with during the night
Though most North American women will still prefer that men approach them and act in that fashion, it’s simply more common to see women up there take a little more initiative
Which, overall, could be argued makes them a little bit easier
In the US, casual sex is a bit more common across the country generally speaking but rural areas always tend to be more conservative
While in bigger cities like Miami or NYC, casual sex is definitely easy enough to find
Now in Colombia, the same could be said for the most part but there are differences too.
For example, in Bogota, women are very much easy enough and open to casual sex.
In cities like Pereira, Cali or Manizales, women are overall very easy also.
In Barranquilla, women are easy enough you won’t have any problems here either.
Now in Medellin, casual sex happens a lot here also but you will encounter a minor challenge in that plenty of people here associate foreigners with sex tourists
Which overall hurts your chances of hooking up
And outside of the bigger cities in Colombia, you will find that the more rural and small town parts of Colombia tend to be much more conservative than the rural and small town areas of the US or Canada
But you are not likely to ever travel to those parts so it’s not worth discussing much for practical purposes
This is obviously quite an important factor when deciding if the women in Colombia are easier than American women.
Simply put, if you can’t speak their language, then you have a greatly reduced chance at getting laid here
Because you are dealing with a much smaller percentage of the population that can even understand what you are saying
Or even understand what these girls here are saying
Now you can still get laid fine enough but you will have more difficulties
And without any Spanish, I believe that American and Canadian women are definitely much easier than Colombian women
There’s no question – you simply have more women that you can communicate with than you would in Colombia
As you would know, women tend to be easier during certain times of the year when there is a big celebration or carnival going on.
In my experience, Colombian women tend to be even easier than North American women during these times of carnivals or celebrations.
This is just from my personal experiences and observations that Colombian women will be more casual overall during these moments.
And thankfully, there are certain celebrations in Colombia that draw quite a crowd like the Barranquilla Carnival.
Which, by the way, is one of the biggest carnivals in all of Latin America.
If you want to know how to get laid during the Barranquilla Carnival….
Then check out my ultimate guide to getting laid during the Barranquilla Carnival here.
As some of you might know, women that are traveling to a new country tend to be easier to hook up with than women that are living in your location.
Perhaps because of the adventure or the thrill of traveling, they simply become more open to having causal hookups.
It could be a student studying in a new area, a tourist, a woman that is taking a business trip or whatever the case might be
Now simply put, the US has more than 80 million visitors visiting this country each year
While Canada gets roughly 20 million visitors and Colombia gets around 6 to 7 million
So overall, North America simply has a lot more foreigners to meet and that means more foreign women traveling to new places
Plenty of foreign women then to meet up and hook up with
Now of course this also again depends on where in these countries you are spending your time in
If you live in a small town in North Dakota, then probably you are not seeing too many foreign women
And comparing that small town to a place like Bogota, then Bogota would clearly be the winner here
But if you are comparing NYC or Toronto to a place like Barranquilla, then yeah you will have more foreign women to work with overall
Increasing your chances of hooking up
And while these foreign women are not American or Canadian, they should still be considered for practical purposes as those reading this are probably interested in getting laid
Though given this is an article comparing Colombian to North American women…
It really doesn’t make sense to ignore another type of Latina that you will find in the Colombian dating scene.
Especially after talking about foreign women you could meet in North America.
And the fact is that Colombia is the best place to be to meet sexy Venezuelan chicks.
They are often similar to Colombian women both physically and in terms of femininity.
But they do have their differences.
Either way, plenty of them are very sexy similar to Colombian women.
And are not difficult to sleep with either.
Just another bonus to trying to get laid in Colombia.
And after all, trying to bang hot Venezuelan chicks would be better to do in Colombia.
Then say Venezuela as of right now for obvious reasons…
And if you are curious about how to bang hot Venezuelan chicks in Colombia…
Then check out this ultimate guide to banging Venezuelan chicks in Colombia here.
To be fair, class differences can serve as an advantage to you when looking to hook up in Colombia.
First, it is no secret that there are foreigners that travel to Colombia to meet “barrio girls” and women in general that come from poorer neighborhoods like Bogota
Simply because it is easier to impress these women with fun dates and also because they tend to be easier to sleep with
When it comes to women from the middle class, they are not necessarily going to be as impressed by the amount of money you have
But being a foreigner can be impressive for the reasons listed in the first factor in this list
Then when it comes to rich and upper class Colombian women, your foreign status isn’t really going to mean anything to them
It might be cool that you are from a foreign country but that is it
However, these women can be very easy to hook up with in general because they are more likely to come from liberal and urban cities like Bogota or Medellin
They are more likely to have traveled to the US and Canada and been more influenced by the culture in those countries
A culture that encourages more open acceptance of hooking up
However, you will find that a certain percentage of these upper class women will be harder to work with because the family might still have very conservative values as a whole
And if we are talking about women that come from the very top of Colombian society economically, then it is very unlikely that you will ever even meet them
And much more likely that they are already in a serious relationship anyway and are not into hooking up as much
So with women from the upper class or those who are better off financially compared to other Colombian women…
Well, it’s a mixed bag as I have pointed out but overall they can be easier to hookup with as long as their family is not too rich
When comparing all of that to North America, you will find that hookup culture is strong enough there that you won’t find too much difference when it comes to class anyway
The only thing is that your wealth is unlikely to be impressive to any girl from a poor background up there unless you are a millionaire so that isn’t working in your favor up there
One issue foreign men often repeat about Colombian women is that they flake a lot and show up late to dates.
Here’s my general take on the matter.
First, flaking is more common among chicks from very touristy cities like Medellin or Cartagena.
It can happen elsewhere in Colombia but it is going to be worse in those two cities specifically.
Second, it is normal for women to show up late to dates by 5 to 15 minutes more or less. Some will show up later than that so just plan accordingly.
Third, flaking behavior is worse among Colombian (and North American) women you meet on Tinder.
In my experience, the women you meet during the day for example are a lot less likely to flake.
Fourth, flaking is not unique to Colombia. It happens in the US and Canada also.
But which country is worse for it?
In my opinion, it depends on location as I have indicated before.
If we are talking about Colombian women in Medellin or Cartagena specifically, then Colombia is worse on this matter I think,
However, I found women in Bogota to respect my time more in contrast to Medellin for example.
And once you are in cities a lot less touristy, then the issue is not as bad in my experience.
So in my overall experience, I feel flaking has been a greater issue in the US than Colombia overall.
Some men will have different experiences with this and argue Colombia is worse.
But this is just what I have noticed due to being from the US and having lived in Colombia for a while now.
To some degree, I feel the flaking issue is exaggerated by foreign men given so many only go to Medellin and that’s it.
And so taking the overall country into the picture and with my experiences in the US, then yeah Colombia is not worse with flaking.
In my experience, nightlife in the US and Canada is better suited for getting laid than in Colombia.
That isn’t to say nightlife in North America is some pussy paradise or whatever.
But it is better when compared to Colombia for a few reasons.
First, better nightlife venues generally speaking. Especially in our big cities like NYC for example.
Second, women are generally more open to meeting strangers during the night at some bar for example in the US.
While you will notice that more women tend to go in groups of friends and do not mingle as much with strangers.
Which is something previously discussed earlier in this article.
That isn’t to say that you can’t meet women during the night — you absolutely can in Colombia!
And there are some venues in Colombia where it is more common.
But they are not as common as you would hope for.
For example, La Troja is a venue in Barranquilla that is great for meeting chicks during the night.
Gringo Tuesdays is an event in Bogota that works well for that purpose also.
So you have options!
When compared to North America, I found Colombia is better suited for so called “daygame.”
Where you approach women you see in public and try to strike up a conversation.
And ideally you get her number and set up a date later.
In North America, women are approachable for sure but bitchier attitudes seem more common.
Probably in part because gender relations between men and women is more hostile.
Now in Colombia, things are a bit different.
Women are not as hostile to men in general. Much more affectionate. and feminine.
And also there are less people who know how to make appropriate approaches during the day than in North America.
On the flip side, there are some negatives to doing daygame in Colombia to be fair.
First, in some specific cities in Colombia like Cali, crime is much higher. You might notice then that some women are more cautious about meeting a stranger during the day.
Not all women but some for sure.
Though, in my experience, being a foreigner does help in this regard. Women are less likely to suspect you of a crime if you are a foreigner versus a Colombian dude.
Just because the logic goes like this — why would a foreigner come to Colombia to mug me?
But this is something to consider.
Second, you will need Spanish obviously to do daygame well in Colombia.
No taking out the phone and using Google Translate. That just looks stupid.
So if you don’t speak Spanish to at least a conversational level, then North America is going to be easier for you for daygame.
One thing that needs to be quickly mentioned is that a lot of men will bullshit you about the quality of women they get in Colombia.
Where they claim that they are getting basically 9’s and 10’s every day.
In my experience, foreign men tend to pull women above what they could get in North America for sure.
But these women are not super models either.
So I do think this needs to be said because…
While I do believe women are easier here in Colombia overall…
And I will elaborate on that in the Final Verdict section of this post below…
I also want you to have realistic expectations of the type of women you will get.
If you have your shit together and speak conversational Spanish, then you can probably score hot women easy enough.
Otherwise, it will be women who are average to maybe a little bit above average.
Having said that….
Don’t get me wrong.
There are ugly women here like in any country.
But Colombian women are sexier on average than American women.
Which needs to be considered because…
If you were to live in a city where 50% of the women are obese and don’t take care of themselves….
Then it’s pointless to ask if they are easy or not.
You wouldn’t want to fuck them anyway.
And given Colombian women are sexier on average compared to the average North American woman…
Then that does obviously help a lot in getting laid easy enough with quality women.
And if you want to know more about my thoughts on how attractive Colombian women are on average…
Then check out this article here where I wrote more on the subject.
Now I don’t recommend you go out there and start simping for Colombian women by spending hundreds on dates…
But the truth is you do have more money than most Colombians do most likely.
Since most jobs in Colombia pay next to nothing.
And with the exchange rates being amazing right now as one USD is worth over 4,000 Colombian pesos at the time of this writing…
Then you can afford to have nicer dates with women at a fraction of the cost in the US.
As I wrote about here about how dates in Colombia are cheap.
All around making it cheaper to date and get laid in Colombia.
Where you might only spend $5 to $10 USD on a date that other Colombian dudes might be more hesitant to spend.
Granted, yes, plenty can afford that. But not everyone.
And especially not with many women in a short period of time.
Which is what you are aiming for — to go on lots of dates and sleep with lots of sexy Colombian women.
And here’s the thing — you don’t even have to spend a small amount of money to impress them either.
Your simple identity as a foreign dude is going to make plenty of women assume you have lots of money.
And as we all know, money has its importance to women but it varies.
Most women find a man who is stable and successful as someone attractive.
Then there are those who are looking for a man to settle down with.
Who obviously would care more about money than your typical chick in her young 20s.
And to be naturally assumed to be doing financially well will serve to impress some women in Colombia.
And make it easier for you to get some dates and get laid.
Especially compared to Colombian men who don’t necessarily get that assumption about them.
And especially in the US where being American is not going to make women assume you are wealthy.
Since, uhhh….
Most people are American in America.
But hopefully you knew that. 😉
Going off from the last point…
You can see that there are some positive assumptions about foreign men made by Colombian women.
Such as that we are stable and have lots of money.
On top of that, Colombian women tend to have other assumptions about foreign men.
Such as that we are faithful and don’t cheat.
Or that we are not misogynistic.
Which is ironic because there are obviously foreign men like that.
But those issues tend to be big enough among Colombian men…
That it makes some Colombian women consider foreign men.
There is also the assumption that foreign men are just better educated overall.
Again, not saying that is true. Just that there’s enough Colombian women that believe these things.
Working in your favor to get laid down here.
This issue is only relevant to a very small percentage of you reading this.
Because most people reading this will either not take the time to even visit Colombia…
Or will visit for a small trip here and there of say nothing more than a month.
But given I have lived in Latin America for years now, it is something I would consider.
Because if you want to sleep with hot Latinas for a long time for many months or years, then Colombia is not ideal.
For example, you can find hot chicks in Mexico City and stay there for 6 months.
Then when the 6 months is over, you leave Mexico and walk back in to get your next 6 month visa.
Similar to a few other Latin countries where that is possible.
Colombia?
Not so much. You get 6 months out of the calendar year.
Meaning once your 6 months are up, you got to stay out of Colombia until the next year starts in January 1st.
Where in the US or Canada, you don’t have to deal with visa issues if you are from there obviously.
And other Latin countries, as I said, are more convenient to stay in long term unless you get residency.
Or unless you are planning on coming and going for 6 month trips.
Or if you only want to stay for a short period of time like most people.
Which, if that is the case, then this is not even an issue for you as said before.
As written about in this article here….
Some Colombian women will be suspicious of your intentions.
Are you really into her?
Or just trying to fuck her and leave?
Like so many foreign men have done when coming to Colombia in the last decade and a half or so.
Fortunately, this factor is only an issue in really Medellin or Cartagena.
And it is easy to get around.
So if you want to know how to avoid the sex tourist stereotype, then read this article I wrote on the subject here.
If you are completely new to Colombia….
Or Latin America in general…
Then you will have some initial obstacles to overcome.
For example, the culture.
You will not be as used to the culture here and that will hurt your ability to get laid.
For example, dancing is very important in Colombia.
But it varies by where you are.
In Bogota, less so.
In Cali, very important as plenty of people dance salsa.
Now you don’t have to be a salsa expert by any means…
But it does help a lot if you are in Cali to know the basics.
You get the idea. Cultural differences can make things more difficult.
Though not impossible for sure.
Going off on the last point….
You also might experience logistical issues if you are new to Colombia.
In large part because you will have no idea which part of the city you should be in…
Or what the best bars are to visit….
Where to meet women during the day…
Among other things.
Now, to be fair, this is a minor issue overall.
Because you can research the cities you are going to.
Which isn’t the same as actually living there but does help.
So you can read any of my city guides which you can find here to get started.
Or you can also read this article on how to prepare for your trip to Colombia.
It basically teaches you how to improve your Spanish while meeting hot Colombian women online.
Who you can meet once you land in Colombia.
The reason why you would do that is so you can hit the ground running on trying to get laid here.
But in the context of this point about logistics…
You can also have some of these chicks give you tips about their city before you arrive.
Like what neighborhoods are currently nice to live in.
Among other logistical things to consider.
So don’t just take advice from me…
But why not also some of the chicks you hope to bang that happen to live in whatever Colombian city you might visit.
And fortunately there are some logistical advantages to dating in Colombian cities.
As we will touch on in the next point….
In my experience, logistics for going on dates is a lot better in Colombia or Latin America in general when compared to North America.
Now, as hinted at before, this depends on location.
Some cities that have better public transportation like NYC would be pretty good too.
But most cities in North America are not amazing when it comes to logistics.
Granted, if you are from Europe, then logistics is probably better where you are.
Just because public transportation is much better and it is easier to walk around some of the cities over there.
But walking around in North America is more difficult as cities are more spread out.
And public transportation is crappier.
Now in Colombia specifically…
The only two cities that really have any decent public transportation is Medellin for sure….
And Bogota is not terrible either.
While it is much easier to walk around from one area to the next in most Colombian cities.
The only city I can think of that had worse design for logistics was Barranquilla to be fair.
So overall, logistics will work better in your favor in Colombia.
And make it easier to get laid.
As hinted at a few times already in this article, you are going to notice that women are more affectionate and feminine in Colombia.
For whatever reason, women tend to be bitchier on attitude in North America.
As gender relations between men and women is relatively shit.
Overall, you are going to enjoy Colombian women more for their attitudes and femininity.
Which makes them easier to get along with and sleep with as well.
If you are going to Colombia to enjoy this country and its hot chicks…
Then I will be making an assumption here…
First, if your trip is short term, then you are probably not working while in Colombia.
Probably a vacation, right?
Of a week or two…
Which means you will have more time on your hand to meet hot chicks than normally.
However, why not extend your time in Colombia?
Like I have and other foreigners I know.
Truth is if you can manage to earn money online or find some way to support yourself…
Then life after a while starts to become easy.
I’m not saying you will be working 4 hours a week…
But your workload will be a lot less than doing the rat race in corporate America.
Which means less hours to work and no commute either..
A lot less stress in your life.
And much more free time than your life in North America offered to bang hot chicks.
And when it comes to banging hot chicks…
Time is essential.
You need it to consistently bang lots of decent looking women at a nice consistency.
And living that type of life is easier in Colombia than in the US if you can manage to find some way to support yourself comfortably.
Which isn’t much by the way — at least $1,000 USD a month I’d say.
Maybe a tiny bit less or more depending on your living arrangements.
But you get the idea.
And living that type of life will make it easier to bang hot chicks and it is easier to do so here than in North America.
Now if you are interested in going down that road…
Read this article I wrote on the cost of living in Colombia…
Or this article on earning money to support yourself while down here…
Or this article I wrote on different business ideas I thought of for how you could support yourself while in Colombia.
You are also welcome to send me an email anytime asking for advice on anything related to Colombia.
I don’t always have the answers but I am willing to help.
And if you can manage to find a way to live down here long term….
Then banging hot Colombian chicks will most likely be much easier for you than banging hot chicks in North America.
Especially if you speak Spanish, have normal social skills and have your shit together.
In short, Colombian women are just as open to hooking up as North American women are but they are more discrete about it
But overall being a foreigner can be a leg up when it comes to hooking up in Colombia but you still have to be a desirable man to a degree
And if you don’t speak Spanish, you will have an easier time overall hooking up in the US or Canada
Plus mixed in with all the other factors mentioned, Colombia can be an easier or harder country to get laid in depending on how those factors are and how it all plays together
So consider the points made above before concluding if Colombia will be an easier place for you
It just might be but it also might be harder depending on how those factors work in your personal life like where you live, if you speak Spanish, etc
Hope that helped clarify an important topic!
If you have any insight of questions of your own, let me know in the comment section.
And finally, make sure to check out the second part to this article that I wrote that covers if Colombian women are sexier than North American women
Thanks for reading and take care!
Hasta luego parceros,
Seth
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