If you are going to Colombia because you want to meet the ideal woman that you can settle down with, you are going to need to know what ideal qualities in a Colombian woman to look for
After all, with all the women that are out there, how do you know which ones are ideal for marriage?
And which ones are definitely not worth your time?
Well, this is a topic that could really be turned into a book by itself
But for simplicity sake, we will cover some of the ideal qualities in a Colombian woman that you should look for
Most of these qualities you could check to see if they exist in her in some way or another on the first date but others might require some extra time
So let’s break them down some of the ideal qualities in a Colombian woman to look for
1: Treats Others With Respect
You are on a date with a Colombian woman and she is treating you very nicely and is warm and friendly
Than the waiter comes to check up on you two
And she snaps at the guy and is acting very rude
Now imagine yourself with her in 10 years
That is exactly how she is going to treat you when the honeymoon is over
The reality is that women in general often show their true colors by how they treat very normal people like a waiter at a restaurant
And on top of that, Colombian women have a reputation for being a bit classist so her attitude against the waiter might be built on some degree of classism she has
Which, if she is overly classist and rude to others based on who they are, then that is a major red flag
If she fails to respect other people, then how will she respect you in the long run?
2: Enjoys Being Feminine
In the modern world, we have women these days saying that they are “as strong as a man”
Among other similar statements
Well, if she is like a man in many ways, I would ask – do you want to date her?
After all, if you were looking to date someone masculine, wouldn’t you do so?
And if you are looking for someone more feminine, wouldn’t you be looking for that in a partner?
The reality is that men and women do have standards that they uphold in what type of partner they want in life and much of those standards are based along understanding of masculinity and femininity
So an ideal Colombian woman is one who engages her femininity and is not afraid to show it
Because she is not trying to be like a man and enjoys being a high quality woman
So she might dress nicely on the date in a nice dress and makeup
Or she might offer to cook you a nice meal on the date
Whatever it may be – a high quality woman will enjoy being feminine and show that to you
3: In Agreement on Living Within Means
One of the biggest reasons for divorce in the world is financial issues
And one way to avoid having financial issues is first to be in agreement before marriage regarding how you two should live life together
What kind of house is a good house for example
Is it ever OK to take out loans for something you don’t need to – such as taking out a loan for 20K vehicle when you could buy a cheaper one that works at 3K
In short, you want to make sure she is also living in her means and is the type of person who is not materialist or classist
While it is not difficult to find a woman in Colombia who enjoys being feminine, it is more difficult, though not impossible, to find a woman who is not materialist or classist
And you have to keep that in mind when looking for a high quality woman in Colombia
To do your best in avoiding the materialist or classist women out there
And go for one who can live within her means and is in agreement with you on how to live a happy life together financially when married
4: She Honors Her Word
Imagine this crazy scenario – you are sick and dying
The doctor says you can’t work for sometime because of a really bad medical condition that will last for 2 months
And in that month, your Colombian wife leaves you because “you have changed” or some other BS like that
She can’t handle seeing you sick and all the stress that it causes
She doesn’t like how you are not bringing in money anymore and has to live spending less money these few months
And she decides she can do better and leaves you
Not exactly honoring her word of “until death do us part”
The reality is that marriage is when you agree to be with someone you love and trust for your whole life
And you need to trust her absolutely
Without trust, there is no relationship
And how can you trust her if she is the type of person who is not trustworthy and doesn’t keep up with her word?
5: Loving when Sick
Very similar to the last point but deserves to be mentioned as its own point
Because we are not just talking about serious medical conditions
In life, we all get sick eventually from something minor
A cold for example
And it is ideal to have a woman in life who will help you get better and give you all the love you need in those times that you are sick
6: In Agreement on Kids
Another point of tension within marriage is children
Before you marry a Colombian woman, you need to make sure you two are in agreement on how many kids you both want, when you two are going to have them and how you two will raise them
So often people get married without having a real and nuanced discussion on this crucial topic
And so you should make sure you do as you spend more time with her
7: Respects Boundaries & Not Too Jealous
This is another issue that has often been associated with Colombian women
That they are very jealous and do not respect boundaries as much when it comes to checking up on you to know if you are still faithful or not
While it is important to understand where she is coming from and to make her feel comfortable enough to trust you, you also have to insist that she do her part to trust you as well
And not be so jealous and overly concerned about potential cheating
Because if every little thing you do independently is a possible sign of cheating to her, then she will never trust you and will always be jealous of something
And that creates a lot of tension and inability for the relationship to work
So make sure you pick the right Colombian woman who is not overly jealous and can learn to trust you and respect boundaries
8: Number of Sex Partners
You are going to want to make sure that your Colombian woman has not had too many sex partners in life before you
For multiple reasons – her ability to bond with you is less as she has more partners, there is a greater chance she will cheat on you and a greater chance the marriage will not work out in the end
Now keep in mind a lot of women do lie about the amount of partners they have had in life
They might not count the guys who didn’t penetrate her pussy and only had oral or anal sex with
Or however else she does it
She will end up often enough not being entirely truthful about it because all women are conscious of the fact that they are perceived as lower quality for the amount of partners they have
So like anything else when determining if she is a high quality woman, you will want to make an educated guess based on the information you know about her to have a rough idea of how much she slept around before you
9: Never Unfaithful in Past
This one doesn’t require much explanation
If she ever cheated on a partner in the past or ever on you, it’s time to dump her
It doesn’t matter if you think she can change
Don’t try to do mental gymnastics to somehow convince yourself that she is different
She isn’t
And even if she is, it’s not worth the risk because she is more likely to cheat on you
On top of that, how can you ever trust a woman who has done that to someone?
And without trust, there is no relationship
Much better to find someone who has never been unfaithful – it’s much easier to have a successful marriage with someone like that
10: Easy Going
This one is quite “easy” to explain also
In short, you don’t want someone who is going to be stressed out all the time
I remember way back when I was living in the US still so many years ago
And I saw a couple at Walmart where there was a husband and wife
And the wife was yelling at the husband to “hurry up” and so many other things
Everything she said was in a yell and she was always stressed out
No respect for the guy and she was always making a scene that afternoon from what I saw
That is not the type of woman you want
You want one who is not high stressed but instead one who is easy going
Because that will be easier to get along with and make a marriage work
11: Good Relationship with Father
Women who have bad relationships with their fathers tend not to respect men as much
And if she can’t even respect her father, how is she going to respect you ever?
Especially in a country like Colombia where things are more traditional and conservative
12: Family is Strong & She Wants to Show You Them
As written about elsewhere in this website, families are much more important in Colombia than they are in the US
They have much more influence on your relationship and will be more involved
So you want to make sure her family is strong and that they are a good influence
That she doesn’t have any relatives who will bring drama into your life
Because if you marry her, you are also marrying her family
And on top of that, you want her to show you her family
So you can first see that they are a good family
And also because a good high quality woman in Colombia will want to introduce you to her family
If she doesn’t, it means she is a low quality woman – as written about in another article when it comes to understanding the importance of meeting her family
So when you are about to meet her family, make sure to dress up well for the first impression with a decent shirt like this one and some nice shoes such as these
13: Friends Are Good Influences
Similar to her family, her friends are also influences n herlife.
Basically, if she has mostly guy friends in her life and not a whole lot of female friends, then it’s more likely that she isn’t thefaithful type
It’s more likely that she enjoys sleeping around a bit from my experience
Also, she might have female friends who are negative influences in that they sleep around a lot or don’t think cheating is as a bad thing as others think it is
So you want to make sure she has good friends
Because if she doesn’t, it’s likely that her friends will influence her in a negative way and make it less likely that the relationship and marriage can work long term
14: Aspirations in Life
Furthermore, you want to make sure she has aspirations in life
Now, that could mean being a stay at home mom
Or it could mean being a teacher
I don’t care either way
Just as long as she works hard to be the best stay at home mom or best teacher there ever was
Because in Colombia, there are plenty of women out there who just stay at home with their parents until their mid or even late 20s
And they never work or study
They just want a man to take care of them while they mess around with other guys who are in her area of the city
Just make sure to avoid those chicks and go for the ones who have aspirations in life of some kind
15: You Two Connect
This is by far one of the most important points on this list. That you two simply connect
That you two get each other on some level
There isn’t much of a way for me to describe it even though I have come across women like this multiple times in my life
You will simply know if you two connect or not
And if you do – you have a much better chance at your marriage working
Because every moment with her will be something you look forward to and you will love every bit of it
She will be someone that you can truly feel comfortable with and can trust and respect
And she will treat you like that in return
Which all that together really makes a marriage much more stable, healthy and enjoyable for both people
Overall
Of course, there are other ideal qualities in a Colombian woman that you should look for
But these are just some of the highlights of the ideal qualities in a Colombian woman
Finally, if you wish to find a loving and high quality Colombian woman to settle down with, I’d recommend Dream Connections as a great company to find a feminine and loyal Colombian wife
If you want to learn more about how to find a high quality woman in Colombia, check out the other articles on this website
If you have any questions or insight of your own about ideal qualities in a Colombian woman, let me know in the comment section. Thanks and take care!
Hasta luego parceros,
Seth
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