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When dating in Colombia, you will occasionally find a money hungry chick. After meeting enough of them, you may wonder what are the common signs of classism & materialism in a Colombiana
If you are interested in finding someone for a serious relationship, it is important to know how to identify these chicks so that you can avoid them.
There are of course plenty of good services available to help you find a high quality Colombian woman — including a company called Dream Connections
But no matter how you choose to find a nice Colombian woman, you have to know how to identify the bad ones to avoid them
From my experience, here are some tips for identifying classism & materialism in a Colombiana:
Tip 1: She Asks For Money or Gifts
This one is so obvious that it really shouldn’t need to be said
But it better be said because supposedly there are men who fall for this
Where you may not have even met the chick you are talking to
But she is already telling you about how she loves you or showing so much interest way too quickly
Then she needs 200 dollars for her kid or to “go to a beauty salon”
Because you want your girl looking nice don’t you?
Even though she’s a girl for 10 other guys she is speaking to online and asking for money from all of them also
And the thing is, I’m not just talking about the obvious scammers online
Even when you meet her in person, some chicks will insist on you buying them a nice gift and you haven’t even had sex yet
All of a sudden she wants a nice necklace?
Not worth it obviously
Chicks who act like this are making it easier for you to identify them and avoid them
And there has been plenty of good information put out there warning guys to avoid them
You just need to not be dumb about it and don’t avoid these chicks who want free money or gifts
Tip 2: Her Family
When meeting her family or asking questions about her family, try to get a sense of how she was raised
Did her parents make her study hard or work?
Did they give her everything she ever wanted?
Was she ever spoiled?
Is her mom always demanding of her dad and asking for more money and gifts while being unappreciative and giving very little back in return?
People are influenced by the family and that behavior from her mom will likely make her believe that is normal behavior to give to a guy.
Always look into the family because that shapes greatly who she becomes in life.
Especially in Colombia or Latin America more broadly where the influence family is much more important and greater
Tip 3: The Restaurant or Café Test
You can learn a lot by taking a girl to a restaurant or a café.
Even before you get to the establishment that you are going to, check to see if she protests or argues about where to go
Because if she isn’t fine with going to a normal place and insists on only going to some fancy restaurant when it is on your dime…
She failed the test already.
Now assuming she doesn’t do that….
Then once you get to where you are going, she can order what she wants.
Then see what she orders knowing it is on your dime.
For example, if she gets the most expensive thing, I’d cut it with her
Shows lack of care for what someone else is offering and lack of ability to be considerate
I one time had a chick order the cheapest thing on the menu – some basic salad
We had been dating for a few months by then and I enjoyed the fact that she wasn’t looking to get me to spend lots of money on her
Very considerate
And also someone who takes into consideration the fact that you are spending money on her and orders appropriately is showing herself to not be manipulative or advantageous of a situation against your interest
Finally, if she wants to pay her half at the end of the date, that is also a good sign that she is willing to take responsibility
And overall reflects well on her
Tip 4: Emergency Test
In this case, you tell her to her face that you forgot your wallet when walking to a café
And that generally speaking you ask if she can cover the cup of coffee at the café you are going to
Watch her face when you suggest that perhaps she can cover the small cost of a date this time
If she looks disgusted, frustrated or something along those lines….
You may be dealing with a chick who only wants you spending money and she is not willing to help out at all
Not even with a small cup of coffee
Even after you may have already bought her a few cups of coffee
Now she may not actually have any money on person that specific date
Which is perfectly OK – she may not have been expecting that you ask her to cover the small cost of the date this time
But most of the time she will have a little bit
And beyond all of that, a woman who is willing to take on some responsibility and help out from time to time is not a woman who is looking to take advantage of you
Tip 5: Her Opinion on Men
Is her opinion of men so bad that she starts boxing them in the face? That might cause medical problems.
This is very similar to the first tip
In that it is quite obvious to do and is a very easy way to filter out the bad chicks
Basically, just ask her on her opinion on men in general
What are men good for? What is a man’s role in a relationship?
Now, some chicks may say men suck and that we are good for nothing
Usually that is from a chick that was raised without a dad in her life
Then you got some chicks that insist that men are to take care of a woman and children financially
If she means that she wants to be a stay at home mom someday with a man she trusts, that is fine
But then ask her what does a woman bring to the table to earn a man like that?
Should a woman bring things to the table like cooking, cleaning and taking care of the house?
Does she even know how to do any of those things?
After all, you don’t want a woman who expects you to be a “traditional man” but she won’t even step up to be a “traditional woman” ever.
That’s just a woman who is looking to take advantage of a guy without offering anything in return
And who sees men as ATMs basically
Tip 6: Limited Money Before Sex
This is a great tip that I have found to work for me personally
Basically, I will not spend much on a woman before we have had sex
Absolutely no dinner or meal
At most, a cup of coffee or a beer
Nothing more
Naturally, women who just want to use men for money or gifts are not going to want to wait around for long to get those things
And plenty will not have sex before they can milk a guy for a lot
And sadly for some foolish men out there, they spend so much and don’t even get sex at all
Simply by refusing to take a woman out to a nice restaurant and refusing to spend a lot of money on her before sex happens…
You are making it much less likely that any materialistic gold digger will stick around
And in my experience, they lose interest very quickly and run off to find some other guy to exploit
Tip 7: What Does She Do For a Living?
In Latin America, you will occasionally find a chick here and there who is literally doing nothing with her life
She might be 23 years old…..
Is not studying and is not working
Has not done either of those things for years
And she lives with her parents
Who don’t even have to be rich….
They can often be low to medium income folks who just throw a little bit of money to the daughter and she spends it
And given that people live with their parents for a much longer time period than in the US
This is all normal for some folks down here
Plenty of chicks down here don’t leave the parents until marriage
And in some cases, I have even seen the husband of the daughter move into the house of her parents or she moves into the house of his parents with children that they decide to have
And so basically never leave the parents ever
In my experience, chicks who literally never do anything with their lives tend to make bad partners for a lot of obvious reasons
One of them being that these chicks tend to exploit guys a lot more financially
Keep in mind it isn’t just her parents giving money to her
Chicks like this often have a few “barrio” (neighborhood) boyfriends running around buying her stuff
So while not only are you hanging out with a chick who is likely using you for free gifts, your chick is also possibly having sex with local guys
Tip 8: Spent Time Abroad in North America or Europe?
This is not a guaranteed tip.
I have met plenty of Colombian chicks who have spent time in these areas like North America and Europe
Some of them are completely normal and humble
In part because their parents raised them right
However, some of them get the idea in their head that they are special because they have traveled a lot
Which is a common sign of classism & materialism in a Colombiana
Tip 9: Private School
This is very similar to the tip about having spent time abroad.
As said before, some chicks are completely normal because of how well their parents raised them
Only some of them are a nightmare because they assume that they are amazing and better than others for studying in a private school when growing up
So keep this in mind
Tip 10: Phone & Car
In Latin America, it is not uncommon to see a chick who is on a payment plan for some expensive phone while only making 300 bucks a month
For Colombian chicks, the phone is a status symbol in a way
The nicer the phone, the better of a person you are
And for Colombians who have more wealth, the type of car you have is treated the same way
Even though plenty of Colombians do not have a car anyway
So when meeting a new girl, you should get her opinion on this subject
How much emphasis does she place herself on these items?
If she is on a payment plan for a phone or car that takes up a significant portion of her monthly income, that is a red flag
Shows lack of financial responsibility and an overemphasis on these items
And remember….
If you marry her someday, that lack of financial responsibility and the overemphasis on getting the latest phone or car will a burden in your life
Making it all the more important to be able to identify classism & materialism in a Colombiana when dating down here
To be fair, I haven’t seen a Colombian girl with this type of car yet but it’s always possible…
Tip 11: Her Friends
Similar to her family, her friends are a major influence on her also
If her friends are also very materialistic and classist, then they are likely influencing her to be so also
After all, we tend to be similar to those we hang out with
So pay special attention to who her friends are
After all, if she is heavily influenced by her family and friends
And they are influencing to have negative qualities, then you can’t change her and be something else
The broader influences around her will win out and you have to accept her for what she is and move on
Tip 12: How Does She Treat Normal People?
Does she treat completely normal people like the waiter at a restaurant like shit?
Does she consider people who are homeless to be low lives?
How does she treat just average people in general?
Keep in mind that how she treats the waiter might be how she treats you someday
A chick who treats normal people like trash…
Especially those without a lot of money like homeless people
Is likely a chick who sees your value as a person tied to how much wealth you got
And will treat you worse if you ever have financial problems
You need a chick who can support you in those times
Not exploit you and put you down
How does she treat the waiter for example?
Final Thoughts
Someday I might just do a “Part 2” of this article to identifying more signs of classism & materialism in a Colombiana
There were several other tips that I could have mentioned but this article is already long enough
Hopefully you find it helpful in your efforts to be better at identifying signs of classism & materialism in a Colombiana
Which can help you avoid the bad women and find a nice high quality woman in Colombia
Leave any questions or insight below if you know of any other signs of classism & materialism in a Colombiana
And if you want other advice on how to avoid bad women in Colombia, check out this article that tells you which Colombian women to avoid and this article for identifying certain dating scams in Colombia
Finally, make sure to read my other article to know a certain type of lie Colombian women will tell you to get away with infidelity and this article for why you should avoid single moms in Colombia
Thanks!
Hasta luego parceros,
Seth
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