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When going on a date with a Colombiana, there are certain questions to ask a Colombian girl on a date to know if she would be a high quality woman
As described in other articles on this website, there are certain qualities you have to look for in a woman to determine if she is a high quality woman or not for marriage
However, what are some exact questions to ask Colombian girl as you get to know her more?
Some of the questions you could ask on the first date while other questions could be asked later in another date as you two become more serious
And keep in mind your Spanish needs to be at least at a conversational level to really understand her when asking these questions. So make sure to improve your Spanish with some useful resources or at least get a translator to help you.
So let’s check these questions to ask a Colombian girl on a date!
Question 1 as a confirmation: “So we are meeting at 5 PM at the park?”
This is the first question to ask her even before the date starts – confirming the exact hour and place in which you two are going to meet
The reason why this question is important is not the question itself but what happens afterwards
So you two agreed on a set time and place – 5 PM at some park let’s say
So does she actually show up at 5 PM at the park?
In Colombia, women often show up late to just about everything
So if you two agreed on at 5 PM, she might show up at 5:15 PM or 5:30 PM
Or maybe even later than that!
And as said elsewhere on this website, you have to be able to trust her word if you are going to be dating her
Because if she can’t keep her word on something so simple and basic as when to meet up for a date, then how can you trust her on something more serious?
Now, to be fair, most Colombian women will show up late to a date even if the Pope was her date
That’s just the way it is
But there are 2 things here:
First, emphasize to her how important it is for her to show up on time
Second, keep in mind how late she is actually is. 5 to 10 minutes? Fair enough
Anything more than 10 minutes is a negative for me when it comes to dating Colombian girls.
In the end, it’s understandable that you can’t change the culture here nor can you make it where something doesn’t slow her down – like bad traffic – to getting to the date
So be understandable also if she shows up late
But also have respect for yourself and insist that she show up as close to on time as possible
So as said, anything more than 10 minutes I consider to be a negative when it comes to evaluating her in Colombia
Question 2: What do you do for a living and what goals do you have in life?
Mentioned in other articles on this website, some women in Colombia do not have any aspirations in life whatsoever
These are the same women who write on their tinder profile “soy una princesa y las princesas no trabajamos”
Which means “I am a princess and we princesses do not work”
This is the type of Colombian woman who lives with her parents until she is married
Which could be until she is even as old at 30 in some crazy cases
And she does not work whatsoever
She does not study except for maybe the occasional class she takes every 2 years or something ridiculous
And she has plenty of “barrio boyfriends” – local guys who are just using her for sex and buying her an occasional gift here and there and that is it
A girl like this is very low quality – she often does nothing in the home nor in life and is always looking for someone to take care of her while she does nothing and never gives back
You want to make sure your girl at least has some aspirations in life and isn’t just going to sit at home all day doing nothing
Question 3: What kind of phone do you have?
As said in the last point, you need to also make sure that she isn’t one of those girls in Colombia who just sits on her butt all day and does nothing
Because there are girls here who are over 25 and do not work or study
So then you need to ask her – what type of phone do you have?
Or check out what kind of jewelry does she have on person and overall try to get a sense of how materialistic she is
Especially when it comes to in relation to how much money she earns in life
For example, there are girls here who make 300 bucks a month and are on payment plans for an expensive phone that costs 600 bucks
A girl like that is not high quality because she doesn’t make smart financial decisions and can’t live within her means
Question 4: What do you like to cook?
This question is really getting at if she can cook at all or not.
It doesn’t matter so much what she likes to cook
Just that if she takes the effort to be more feminine and learn how to cook in life
Which is appealing overall and a sign of a high quality woman
Question 5: How many boyfriends and sex partners did you have?
The first aspect of this question regarding the boyfriends could be asked on the first date
However, asking her how many sex partners she has should be reserved until after you had sex with her already
Where she is going to feel more open to you
But regardless of how open she is, also keep in mind that plenty of girls lie also about how many men they have slept with
Because they know that having slept with a lot will make them be seen as lower quality
That’s why women will automatically start reducing the number in her head
That one time she gave a guy a blowjob and that was it? Not sex enough – doesn’t count
Or that time she did anal? Not sex enough – doesn’t count
How about that time she was on vacation at a beach near Santa Marta and had sex with a few Australian guys at once?
Nope! Not sex enough – doesn’t count
If there is any hesitancy before she tells you how many partners she has – a notable pause after you ask the question…
Then you are seeing her do fancy mathematics and incredible mental gymnastics that would earn her a gold medal in her efforts to reduce her sex count
In the end, you can’t just rely on her response to this question. You also have to do your best effort at taking a good guess based on what you know about her
Question 6: What are your friends like?
Her friends, like her family, are a great influence in her life.
In the case where she only or mostly only has guy friends, then she is not to be taken as a serious partner because she probably has a higher sex count and likes to sleep around more likely
Sure, not all women who do that are like that but most I have seen are
Also, if she has any female friends who cheat a lot and/or have anti-male views – such as the usual “all men are trash” or anything like that – then she shouldn’t be considered a high quality woman
This is who she spends her time with and who influences her
And those toxic views or behaviors from her friends often have a way of influencing her life decisions
Question 7: What do your parents do and how is your relationship with them?
This is another one of the questions to ask a Colombian girl
Here’s why:
First, what do your parents do?
In this case, you want to see what kind of house she grew up under
Was the dad the main provider while mom stayed at home and never worked?
Did both work?
In the rare case where it happens, was the mom the breadwinner and the dad was not?
Which doesn’t happen nearly as much in Colombia as in the US by the way
Having a basic understanding of her parents will help you a little better in understanding her as well since her parents and how they lived their lives will have influenced her on her understanding of what is normal for couples
Second, ask her what is her relationship with her parents like
Does she have a good relationship or a bad one?
Girls that have a bad relationship with either parent tend to be lower quality parents from what I have seen in the dating world
Question 8: When would she like to be married or have kids?
This is one of the more important questions to ask Colombian girl and it has has 2 reasons for why it’s important
First, you have some girls in certain areas of the country who are the “careerist” type in large urban cities like Bogota
Where all they care about is climbing the corporate ladder
And they want to put off marriage until 32 or something like that
Regardless of when you want to get married, you want to avoid chicks like this
They tend to not make the best mothers or wives because they heavily prioritize working at a job that they don’t even like most of the time over having a family
Which is what tends to bring most of us more joy anyway
These are the same chicks who tell you that “they would get an abortion” if they got pregnant too early because it would mess up their career choice to be a lawyer or working at a bank or whatever she does
Which, regardless of your opinion on abortion, again shows where her priorities are in life and where they will be in the future
In that regard, do you think a girl like this would over prioritize her husband, let alone your kids, over her job?
Not as likely
So I suppose that is another question you could ask her but wasn’t put on this list because I tried to keep it short – if she got pregnant, would she get an abortion and why or why not?
Anyway, the second reason why you want to ask this question is that divorces often happen in part because there is a disagreement for example on how many children to have and how to raise them
In short, if you want to make sure you have the best chance of having a successful marriage with this woman, you need to make sure you two are aligned well when it comes to marriage and children.
Question 9: If parents get sick later in life, how would you treat them?
As mentioned elsewhere on this website, this is quite an important question to ask a Colombian girl when getting to know her
In the US, we often send old parents to the retirement home
In Colombia and elsewhere in Latin America, it’s more common for people to take in their dying and old parents into their own home
Where they will be taken care of there – in your home
So not only do you want to make sure you actually like her parents to some degree because this could possibly happen to you if you marry her…
But you also want to know how you two would handle this issue when it might come up in the future
Finally, there is another issue that is related to this topic – money and parents
It might be the case that the parents don’t need to be taken care of physically but just need money for a medical emergency or something else
How will you two handle that issue?
Keep in mind that Colombian women sometimes even send money to their parents every so often even if the parents don’t need the money
I have seen it happen multiple times and it is done simply because they want to give back to the parents since the parents helped them so much
Which, on one hand, shows good values on her part in my opinion because it shows how much she honors family and taking care of one another
However, this can be a sensitive issue – sending money even if they don’t need it
So you need to talk to her about it ahead of time to know if she is ever going to do that and to also make her know that it is not your money from your own job that is ever sent to them “just because”
You want her to understand the cultural difference there and you are not comfortable sending money to her parents for no reason as some here might want to do themselves
Question 10: Do you like Colombia?
This is one of the basic questions to ask a Colombian girl intended to start a bigger conversation
First, you want to see if she likes Colombia and ever plans on leaving Colombia
And you should tell her that you don’t have any plans on leaving Colombia and you intend to live here
And if you two married someday, her life is likely to be in Colombia
Now I get that some of you might want to bring her back to the US or wherever you are from
Despite the difficulties that exist with that as mentioned in other articles on this website
However, even if you want to bring her back someday, you are almost guaranteed going to have to spend some years in her country first just to make sure she is the right woman anyway
And in that time, you want to make sure she isn’t using you to get access to life in the US
Now, keep in mind, most Colombian women do not want to live in the US or outside Colombia
As I have written about elsewhere on this website
So I don’t want to overemphasize this issue too much because most would rather live here
However, some do want to escape Colombia and do see you as their ticket out
And it is often easy to tell if she is a low quality woman who only wants to use you – as I have mentioned in other articles on this website
Regardless, one way to filter out the women who just want to use you is to say that you don’t intend on living in the US
From my experience, women who just want to use you for that purpose will lose interest more often than not when they hear that and accept it as truth that you will not be bringing her back to the US or elsewhere
So asking this question as a way to start a bigger conversation about where you two would live long term is worth having
Not only to filter out the low quality women but also because truly you want to know where she stands honestly if she is not a low quality woman
Because for you two to be married, you have to settle on where to live and raise a family
So it has to come up anyway despite if she is low quality or high quality
Overall
As a final point, it should also be mentioned that her actions are always more important than her words
Some low quality women will lie to you, such as regarding how many sex partners they have had, if they believe the lie is what you want to hear
So – despite what she says to any of these mentioned questions to ask a Colombian girl – always pay more attention to her actions than her words
In the end, I hope this article was helpful and covered some of the basic questions to ask a Colombian girl on a date and as you get to know her more.
Thanks for reading and take care!
Hasta luego parceros,
Seth
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