When dating women, sometimes you will go on a date where she brings her best friend in Colombia along
Or she says ahead of time perhaps that she is bringing her best friend in Colombia along
Granted, you weren’t interested in meeting her best friend in Colombia but here she is.
Back when I was living in Barranquilla while studying abroad, I met a cute Colombian chick who did just that
Where we agreed to meet at Buenavista Mall at night
I made sure to dress nicely with a decent watch like this and a good shirt like this one
And when I got there, I saw that she brought along one of her friends.
I didn’t say much because I didn’t think much of it
However, in my experience over the years dating women and Colombian women more specifically, I believe that it is a waste of time to go on a date with a woman when she brings her friend along.
In my experience, women who bring their friend along first never seem that interested in you to begin with
Second, it’s harder to escalate with a woman when she brings a friend or family member along
Especially as she is conscious of not appearing too easy or escalating too much when someone she knows is in eyesight
Third, it’s generally harder to maintain a strong conversation with her when the friend is there as it is common for her tosimply spend more time talking with the friend than you
After all, she knows her friend well and she just met you
Finally, some of these chicks who bring their friend along have absolutely no interest in you and are just trying to use you as a free meal or beer ticket for her and her friend.
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Granted, some of these chicks will bring the friend along because they are nervous something could happen and they could be threatened
Especially in a country like Colombia where worse things happen all the time
However, most chicks in Colombia don’t have any problem meeting you alone, even at night
Especially if you spend the time talking with them ahead of time where you exchange photos and perhaps do a video call by Whatsapp
With all of that, she is going to naturally trust you more and feel more comfortable meeting you even later at night
However, there will always still be chicks that bring along the friend on that date.
In my experience, whenever a girl brings a friend along to the date, nothing ever happens between us
No escalation and no sex.
In the end, it always feels like a waste of time when she brings along her best friend in Colombia
As a result, I have walked away from dates the second I see she brought along another friend uninvited.
Because I know ahead of time that it is a waste of time and I would have a better day doing something more productive
Such as going to the gym, earning money, meeting a different chick or just having a beer
Anything else is going to be more productive for your time.
In that case, I would recommend you stand firm in saying no to having a date with a chick who brings the friend along
Not only does it waste your time but it is also disrespectful to you personally if she brings someone along uninvited withoutyour knowledge ahead of time
In one incident when I was living in Medellin, I remember I planned a date with a chick as a last minute thing for us to go tothe bar and see what happens
However, she mentioned she might bring her friend along by Whatsapp message
So I told her I’m not interested in going to see her if she brings the friend along
Well, she shows up anyway at the nearest metro station with her friend and sends me a photo
Saying they are waiting to go on the date
I’m not sure if she went blind the second I told her I won’t see her if she brought the friend along or if she just ignored it
Either way, I told her to have fun at the bar.
Suffice to say, she was little pissed that I didn’t want to show up and that she wasted her time traveling to see me
Well, I told her my standards. If she doesn’t like my standards, she can find another guy.
Oh well.
At the moment, I thought that was the end of it.
We probably won’t ever see each other and we will both go along our own ways
However, she messages me about a week later asking how I am
And then we talk and she still wants to get to know me
In the moment, I thought it might be a waste of time
Maybe she would try to bring her friend along again and I would just be wasting my time
However, I didn’t have much planned that week so fair enough
We set up a date, no extra friends invited, and we see each other
One night at the bar leads to some fun back at my place later that night…
And I was glad I saw her. It was a great night overall.
Afterwards, we saw each other a few more times and it was fun always.
At one point, I even saw the friend that I was supposed to meet that I agreed to see on one of our dates afterwards.
It was kind of funny given that her friend didn’t like me much initially for not agreeing to see her
But she got over it and we are all fine afterwards.
Overall, I would say there are a few lessons to be learned from this and other similar experiences I have had in life dating
Main Lessons
- Never have a date with a girl where she brings her friend along before sex has happened. It will simply be harder to escalate and there is greater chance she might be using you for free food or beer for her and her friend.
- For dating and life in general, always have a “walk away price” when negotiating something, like how the date will be for example. If you are not getting the minimum of what you want, then it isn’t worth your time and you should walk away. Same with dating women. You will always have a better experience this way and have less unpleasant moments in life.
Thanks for reading and let me know below if you have any questions about how to deal with a Colombian girl’s best friend in Colombia.
If you want more dating advice with Colombian women, check out other articles that I wrote….
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Hasta luego parceros,
Seth
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