When it comes to meeting Colombian women, you got options as I wrote about in another article — especially if you want to make a serious Colombian girlfriend
You can meet them on websites like Colombian Cupid or Latin American Cupid
Or tinder
Or any of those “exchange” events that are out there
Plus a lot of men prefer going to the bar or some nightlife venue to meet chicks
Where they go to nightclubs dressed well with a decent watch or some nice dress shoes
And a good deal of the time it’s to meet a woman that you hope to just have sex with and nothing more
Which is fine but eventually most of us start to want something more than that
Most men that I know who enjoy casual sex a lot end up like most people wanting something more than just sex
Because you have sex and she leaves and then you still have nobody in your life that you love
Nobody that you can say to “hey, remember that nice trip we took 5 years ago?”
Nobody to have a family with and nobody who will be there in your final moments before you die
So ultimately, most men that I have met who have had their casual fun with Colombian women start to value eventually finding someone that they can do all of those above mentioned things with
However, if you use common sense, it should be obvious that using Tinder specifically or going to the bar are not usually the best ways to meet a cute Colombian girl that would make a good wife
Granted….sure
Some men manage to pull that off but in my experience using Tinder or going to the bar, most women I have met in those ways tended to be chicks that would not make great wives
In large part because you can’t trust them to be faithful and not mess around with some other guy
But that’s been my experience anyway
So then the question comes – how can you find a faithful and serious Colombian girlfriend?
This article is just one of many that you will find on this website dedicated to this exact topic of the importance of finding someone that you can have a life with and the different ways you can do it
Fortunately, stories and relevant experiences can illustrate some ways that men like you can use to find a faithful and beautiful Colombian woman to settle down with when you are ready
My Case
Time to get personal with my own life
A few years ago, I was in the situation as described above
After many years of living in different Colombian cities and having casual hookups with so many Colombian chicks, I got tired of that lifestyle
It was great and all but it really wasn’t adding much more value in my life
By that point, I started valuing more important things like expanding my online work even more and focusing on having more rewarding experiences
And one thing I remembered was that whenever I settled down for a little bit in a mini relationship with a woman I loved, the experiences were always much greater
Simply because you had something special in your life
On top of that, there is the desire to raise a family and share a life with someone beyond just a few experiences
So I stopped messing around with all the casual chicas and started looking for a more serious chica that didn’t want to be the chica for 10 different chicos
That’s a funny looking sentence
Well, anyway, you get the idea
So I became more serious myself and figured that Tinder and the bar wasn’t going to do it for me
Instead, I decided to focus even more than before to approach women in public spaces like malls and parks
And at the same time, I had been studying in some university courses here – not because of my work to find a more serious woman or for the purpose of getting employment in Colombia
Mostly just because the opportunity interested me in taking some classes in general on Colombian literature
It’s a good way to keep your Spanish sharp and also get out of the apartment when I work so much at home anyway
Plus the courses are cheap here compared to the US so it didn’t really cost much what I took
But anyway, while at a class that was dedicated to studying Colombian literature, I met a cute girl who was in the same class
She was studying to get her Masters in literature and ultimately became my girlfriend that I am with now
She was beautiful and was wearing a nice blue dress that day with a little bit of makeup and some cute glasses
After one of our classes, I approached her and started a conversation with her
We joked around a little bit and I had her laughing
Then we exchanged numbers. Apparently she was busy that day because she had some special birthday to attend of one of her friends
So off she went and we met up later for a date at one of those typical Colombian cafes Juan Valdez
I thought about taking her to Starbucks instead but given that she is Colombian, maybe she would prefer something from her own country
So there we went and basically everything spiraled from there
It’s been a few years now and we are still together. And I’m happier for it
For me, it’s much better than just casually hooking up all the time
It’s a nicer and more relaxed life and more enjoyable also to be with someone you like
Main Lessons
In my case, I have been a little more integrated into Colombian society by taking courses here
And having residency
Among other things
So first – if you want to have a better chance of meeting a nice Colombian woman to be your potential wife someday, you should integrate yourself more into society here
Get residency, study at a university here, make local Colombian guy friends, join a club or whatever else
You get the idea
You will have more opportunities to meet people and to make a serious Colombian girlfriend
And on top of that, you are going to need Spanish most likely to get it done
Because as most women here don’t speak English – especially the ones you meet in more normal ways – then the more Spanish you will need
Which is the second point here
Furthermore, you have to be ready to meet a girl like this.
If you are still wanting to party around and have more casual fun, that is great
But I’d recommend trying to settle down when you are ready and only you know when that is
And beyond that, there is one final point to bring up….
That it is easier to meet a more normal woman who is going to be faithful and a good partner at more normal areas
Not Tinder or the bar
But instead a local university, shopping mall or through friends
You get the idea
Easier to meet a more normal woman by going through more normal and healthier ways to meet them
And all these points together will definitely make it easier for you to have a beautiful and serious Colombian girlfriend that you can settle down with
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Hope that helps and thanks for reading
Hasta luego parceros,
Seth
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