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Before you decide to marry with a Colombian woman, you need to know some of the common signs that that your Colombian girlfriend will cheat
Some of these signs are red flags you should look for before you even begin dating her and other signs are red flags for when you two are already dating.
So let’s break down these 20 signs that your Colombian girlfriend will cheat
Sign 1: Has Cheated Before on Someone
Some of these signs, such as this one, are going to be veryobvious
Because at the end of the day there are still men who are willing to date a woman who has cheated on someone, perhaps even them, in the past
And if she is willing to cheat on anyone in the past, that means it is very likely she will be open to cheating on you and will probably do so
Now you might tell yourself that somehow “she is different”
She isn’t and don’t even try
Just move on – there’s someone better out there who doesn’t cheat
Sign 2: Flirtatious With Others
This is another obvious one as well that doesn’t need to be said but also does
Because it’s common enough for a man to be with a woman and notice that she is making a very strong kind of eye contact with another guy in public
Or she is sending heart and kissy emojis to a guy on Whatsapp or by text
Or is just flirting a little bit with some guy in public and you notice it
No matter what, you should drop her if she ever flirts in any way, no matter how small, with any guy
It just isn’t worth it and she will take it further and try to cheat on you with one of them
Sign 3: Is Entitled
Any woman who is entitled is also the type that feels that her boyfriend or husband should be the man that can bring everything to her life and that he has to be Mr. Perfect
And if he is not perfect, she will be resentful and feel that she was somehow cheated
And that she will be angry with you more often for not giving her everything she wants and will end up looking for another guy
Which is just one of the signs that your Colombian girlfriend will cheat
Sign 4: Values Short Term Pleasure Over Long Term Gain
Women who cheat tend to value short term pleasure over long term gain
In many cases, a woman might cheat even though it doesn’t make long term sense
The guy she cheats with might be a guy who doesn’t care about her and could not offer a good future with her but she doesn’t care because she finds him more attractive and wants sex with him
So she values the short term pleasure of sex over the long term possibility that her relationship will fail and all the problems that will bring
Sign 5: Is Impulsive and Needs Constant Excitement
There are some girls out there who cannot stand being in a relationship for very long because it starts to feel boring to her and she wants a new exciting adventure in her life
As a result, she might start looking for that adventure by flirting with other guys and possibly cheating on you down the road
At times her cheating might be impulsive and in the moment as the excitement of a new guy brings her to the moment of having sex with someone else
Sign 6: Has Bad Influences from Friends and Family
This is one of the bigger signs that your Colombian girlfriend will cheat from my experience
In part because you can’t win against what her friends, family and culture in her environment encourage her to do
A Colombian girl who has bad influences in life when it comes to how she understands men and relationships will be more likely to cheat on you
For example, her mom might have given her ideas that are anti-man and encourage her to think that all men are trash
Without a masculine father in her life to prove to her that all men are not trash, she might end up believing what her mom says
As a result, it will be harder for her to ever truly value a guy
Additionally, she might have friends in her life that are bad influences and encourage her to cheat
In the end, you can’t win against her friends and family. They will influence her to make bad decisions and have bad believes if they choose to do so
So be very aware of this as it is one of the important signs that your Colombian girlfriend will cheat
Sign 7: Has Had A lot of Partners in Life
Simply put, a woman who has had a lot of partners in life is less likely to be able to be in a serious relationship without cheating
In large part because her ability to bond well with another man is not as strong as what it could be
Sign 8: Unannounced Partying
A woman who is going to cheat on you will sometimes go on unannounced partying with her friends where you are not invited
She won’t invite you because it’s just a thing for her friends and herself and that’s it
When in reality, she might be meeting other guys at this party instead
On top of that, it is also likely that she might not even tell you about the party at all after the event has happened and will be a surprise for you if you ever learn about it
Sign 9: Doesn’t like Questions About Daily Activities
You ask her completely normal questions about her day and she doesn’t like to answer any of the questions
Or she starts to feel defensive even when you are not suggesting that she did anything wrong
But she feels defensive in part because of the normal questions and her fear that you might suspect that she cheated on you
Sign 10: Very Attentive to Surroundings
This one is very simple – basically she is concerned that you two might accidentally run into a guy that she cheated with in public
Therefore, her eyes might be all over the place and she might be sensitive about you two going to certain public areas because that is where a guy that she cheated on you with might be
Sign 11: Notable Decrease in Sex
Simply put, if she is cheating on you, then she is not attracted to you anymore and is more attracted to the other guys she is with
And so she doesn’t want to have sex with you as much anymore and you will find it difficult to ever have sex with her
From your perspective, it will appear as if she feels that sex is just a “chore” and not something she is interested in anymore
Sign 12: She Stops Caring About the Relationship and its Future
Similar to sex, she is going to stop giving intimacy in the overall relationship
That means that she will be saying “I love you” a lot less and will appear to be more hesitant to ever say it
She isn’t going to want to cuddle as much with you or hold hands
She will find it more difficult to maintain strong eye contact with you as well
When you two kiss, it won’t be as passionate either
Overall, you will get a sense that she is very cold in the relationship
On top of that, she also won’t be thinking about the long term prospects of the relationship and where it is headed
All of a sudden, she isn’t interested anymore in taking the relationship to the next step – be it moving in together, talking about marriage, seeing your family or anything like that
Sign 13: Suspicious Guy(s)
There will also be a certain guy…
Or 2
Or 5
Maybe a 100 suspicious guys, who knows
Some girls are just very unfaithful
Anyway, there will be a guy or maybe more who she communicates quite a bit with
She is always interested in what he has to say and is always anticipating another text from him
When you ask who is texting, she might appear that you just interrupted a fun moment and change her face from a smile to a frown and go “oh, just a friend”
At any rate, there will be a guy or two that you suspect is getting too close with your Colombian girlfriend and so that will cause suspicion
Hence, the suspicious guy(s)
Sign 14: Treats you like an ATM
Women who treat their men like ATM machines – in that they are always requesting that he buys her something and her attitude will get hostile if he says no – are women who have no respect for her guy
If she only acts nice when she needs something bought for her and acts mean when you don’t buy it, then she only cares about the money
And money doesn’t make her find you sexually attractive or someone to respect
And without that respect and physical attraction, she will cheat on you as she only cares about the money
Sign 15: Secretive With Her Phone
All of a sudden her phone is a mysterious device that only the pre-Columbian gods are allowed access to
Before, she might have had no problem if you accessed it or watched what she was doing on it
But now it’s an issue and she has her phone on watch all the time
In large part because she doesn’t want you to see her conversations with the men that she is cheating on you with
Sign 16: Harder to Reach Than the President
Before she would answer your texts and calls relatively quickly
Now it takes 5 business days for anything to get through
Additionally, you will find it that she is difficult to even see in real life
Before you might have had several dates and more per week, now you just got one date a week let’s say
But you get the point
She becomes harder to reach than the President of the US
Or in this case, the President of Colombia?
All together with everything said under this specific topic, any communication with her, in person or electronic, becomes more difficult
Sign 17: Inventing Trouble
As she cheats on you more, she will obviously not find you as attractive nor a person that she can respect
As a result, she is going to be more irritable with you and also dislike you a lot more
In the end, she will be causing arguments over even the most basic things
Part of the reason for why she is doing this is also because it helps her justify her cheating behavior as she can do some mental gymnastics and tell herself that the relationship isn’t working anyway because you two always argue
Sign 18: Sudden Significant Improvement in Her Appearance
She hasn’t gone to the gym in 1,000 years
Now, all of a sudden she is a gym expert and going everyday
And she is watching what she eats very carefully and putting in a lot of work to lose any extra weight
On top of that, she is dressing much nicer and it isn’t for you
In the end, she is looking to notably improve her appearance so that she can attract higher quality men that are out there
Sign 19: Sudden New Sexy Clothing
While you spend time with her, you notice that all of a sudden she has sexy new underwear and other clothing that she never used before
And is not intending to ever use with you
She might end up doing this because she is going to cheat on you and wants to impress a new guy that she is considering to bring into her life
Sign 20: Projecting
When someone does something wrong or feel insecure about something, they will sometimes project that insecurity onto someone else
In this case, she might start acting very jealous and using that to falsely accuse you of cheating on her in any crazy example that she can think of
Even when you know that what she is saying doesn’t make sense and then you act confused about why she is causing problems and accusing you of something you obviously didn’t do
Final Point: Trust Your Instinct
Way too often men observe many of the very obvious signs that she is a low quality woman who will likely cheat on you or is a woman who is currently cheating on you
And then said men do all sorts of mental gymnastics to convince themselves that she is definitely different
She isn’t like the other women out there – she’s special!
Wrong
If your instinct is telling you that you can’t trust her, then move on
And all of these lessons and this final point are equally true for Colombian women and women in general
As you may have noticed, none of this advice was specifically for Colombian women
In large part because even though there are large cultural differences between Colombian women and women in other countries…
Women all around the world share very similar characteristics in which advice for something like the topic of this articlecould really be applied just about anywhere with women of any country
That has been my experience anyway
So be aware of these signs that your Colombian girlfriend will cheat so you can protect yourself from infidelity here
Equally important, make sure to check out another article on this website regarding the ideal qualities to look for in a Colombian partner
And if you are interested in finding the right woman to settle down with for marriage, check out Dream Connections as a great company to help you find love and marriage in Colombia
And if you have your own experience or any questions, let me know below in the comment secton.
Thanks for reading and take care!
Hasta luego parceros,
Seth
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