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As more foreigners come to Colombia to find a Colombian wife, many of them end up taking their Colombian wife back home to the US or wherever they are from
One time while sitting at a park in Medellin called Bolivar Park, I met a couple where the guy was from the US and the woman was from Colombia. They had been married with two kids and decided to move up to the US
However, his wife didn’t like living in the US and ultimately had to move back to Colombia
So he got prepared – saved up financially and learned how to make money online – among other preparations most likely
And they moved back because his wife was sad in the US and didn’t like the life up north away from her family and all the stress that caused
And that’s not an unusual story by the way
Among plenty of men I know who married a Colombian woman, it is common for her to not feel excited about moving to the US to live there
As written about in another article on this website, there are plenty of reasons for why a woman from Colombia would not want to live in the US
So are you thinking of going to Colombia to meet a feminine, sweet and beautiful Colombian woman to bring back with you?
Well, if you are, then you should look for the following qualities in a Colombian woman because these are the 10 qualities I have noticed to be the most important
When I think of some of the Colombian women who I know moved to the US or elsewhere with their husband, they often were much more likely to stick around if they had some of the following 10 traits.
So if you are thinking of taking your Colombian wife back home, pay attention to the following points!
Trait 1: She Speaks English Well Enough
This one is quite obvious when you are thinking of taking your Colombian wife back home
Even though you could take your Colombian wife to a city like Miami or Los Angeles where there are plenty of people who speak Spanish, you could also be thinking of how well she will be able to speak English
After all, if she can’t speak the language that most people in the US speak, how well can she live here?
When it comes to finding a job, picking the kids up from school or anything, having English at a conversational level at least is important
Granted, if she doesn’t speak English, this quality could always be improved to where she does
Trait 2: Has Family or Friends in the US
When moving to the US or elsewhere, she is going to be home sick
She is going to miss her culture
And her feeling home sick and wanting to be near her family especially is going to cause a lot of heartache for her
So in the end, it would be better if she happened to already have some friends or family members living in the US or wherever you are from
On top of that, having your family treat her like family and being very close to her can also be very helpful if she doesn’t happen to have any of her own family living here
Trait 3: Has lived in another city in Colombia away from family
Women in Colombia who have lived away from their families in another city tend to have it easier when it comes to living in another country away from their family
Because if she lives in Bogota but her family is in Barranquilla, then she is not likely seeing her family everyday
Most likely she is seeing her family once every 4 to 6 months, which is probably about the rate more or less at which she would be seeing her family if she lived in another country
So women who lived in another city before away from family tend to have it much easier with the stress of being away
Trait 4: Has traveled internationally before, especially to your country
Similar to the last point, a woman who has traveled to another country before has more experience being far away from family
She also has experience living in another culture and using a different language – experiences with both of those things is also very important to help her adjust life in a new country
And if she has already spent time in the country you two are going to live in, then she has a better understanding of what to expect and how to adjust to it
Trait 5: Managed to have found a job in the US
This one is crucial as some women that come from Colombia cannot manage to find a job quickly enough because of multiple reasons, including their lack of English
And if you are the one supporting her, then it is going to be tough financially to keep doing so for most men and you will want her to have a job eventually
So the sooner she can get a job, the easier it will be for you two to make the transition
Especially as her getting a job will make her feel a little more part of the community that you two live in with her having her own life
And she is less likely to be focused on the fact that she is far away from home since her job will keep her busy
All around, it’s very helpful if you can get her working as soon as possible
Trait 6: Not Completely Dependent and Can Do Things Self like Find Friends or Study
This is similar to the last point in that you want her to be able to adjust to life well in your country and do some things on her own
Such as finding a job
Or better yet – find friends that she can spend time with in your country
Because if she is the type to go out there and get stuff done, then she is less likely to stay at home all day feeling alone while you are working
A woman who has the self motivation to get adjusted to living in a new country when it comes to getting a job or finding friends or whatever else is very important since it takes a lot of work to live in a new country
And you can’t do everything for her – she has to have that self motivation as well to make it work
Trait 7: Has Complete Trust and Respect for You
This is important for any relationship regardless of if she is going to live in your country or Colombia.
But when it comes to living in a new country that is not her own, she is putting a lot of trust into you to make it work
If she doesn’t trust your ability to lead the marriage and transition the family into living in your home country, then she is going to have a lot of doubts about if she made the right decision
So on her end, having the utmost trust and respect for you is crucial – and vice versa
Trait 8: You Two are in Agreement on Trips Back
While living outside of Colombia, she is obviously going to miss her family and friends as I have said multiple times
Therefore, one way to handle this issue is to arrange trips back to Colombia every so often according to your budget
Doing so will give her the time necessary to be back with family and friends every so often and is absolutely crucial for making this work in most cases
Trait 9: You Two Are in Agreement on Raising of Kids
Regardless of if you are going to live in Colombia or your country, you two have to be in agreement on how to raise the kids
Will they learn Spanish for example?
How much experience will they have in Colombia if you are living in your country?
And vice versa if you two happen to be living in Colombia – then do they learn English and how much experience will they have living in the US?
So before you ever marry a Colombian girl, think very carefully about these questions and more as they relate to how to raise kids in your country
Trait 10: You are Understanding of Her Commitment & Sacrifice
Many of the points on this list have to do with her – learning English, finding a job in your country, having self motivation and more
However, it’s not just work for her
You also have to put in some work as well to make sure that her transition to life in your home country works out
In this case, you first need to be understanding of her commitment and sacrifice to leaving her family, culture and home country to live in your home country
Some of you might think that you are doing a good thing by getting her out of Colombia – but as I said before on other articles, most Colombian women don’t want to live in your country
They are happy living in Colombia with their family and friends and where everything is culturally familiar to them
Where they do not feel like an outsider with all the stress that causes
So try to be understanding first that she is making a big sacrifice to live in your home country
That also means to listen to her when she needs to talk about something that irritates her with living in another country
It could also mean doing little things to remind her of her home country like listening to Colombian music or having her cook a nice Colombian dish to eat together
It also means to put in the effort, as said before, to getting her trips back home to visit family
Among so many other things that you could do to be appreciative of her sacrifice and help you transition in the best way possible to life in another country
Overall
It is tough work taking your Colombian wife back home and making the transition to living in another country like the US with your kids
To make it easier, make sure she learns English well enough with a decent book such as this one for learning English
In the end, both of you have to put in a lot of effort and it will not be easy
If you have any questions or insight of your own about taking a Colombian wife back home….
Make sure to let me know in the comment section below. Thanks and take care!
Hasta luego parceros,
Seth
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